How to be more confident and motivated|Life|Dakota.

Hey guys, hope you are all doing well. Today i wanted to speak about and give you some tips on how to stay motivated and confident, hope you enjoy this post.


Have i always been confident? No i haven’t, i used to get bullied quite a lot through out highschool. But slowly over time i grew confident, a lot of people in my life would say im over-confident aha.

I am so lucky to have a group of people around me than allow me to be confident and that have helped me come out of my shell and be confident, so it is important that you have a group of people who help you be more confident and if you don’t have that then be the person who’s more confident, it can make a difference.


One Stop caring. Stop caring about what others are saying and what others are doing and concentrate on yourself. If someone is setting out to bring you down are you going to concentrate on them and show them that they are bringing you down or are you going to prove them wrong? Just do you.

If people are saying “guess what ___ said about you”, move on, block it out, if it’s not making you happy, if its not making you money, if its not making you a better person in any way why would you care?, if they aren’t your friends or family don’t let it get to you. It’s not easy to stop caring i know, but look at the situation and if it isn’t going to make you a better person, move on.


Two- Love yourself. It’s not always easy to love yourself, but pick out things about you that you like and use them. There is no one out there that can do you better than yourself. You are you going to have what you have forever so don’t let it affect you. If you dont like it the only person that can change it is you.

Not everyone can see life the way you see life. The day you start doing things for you, you become stronger and happier. It’s so important to love yourself. You only care about the way you look because of what other says. The way the media makes us think that life has to be ABC and that you have to look a certain way. Never compare yourself to other people.


Motivation takes a lot. With me it was not having the money to do what i wanted to do. Seeing other people succeed in life made me want to better myself. Stay positive, don’t let other people waste your day and time. Everyone has bad days.

No matter what you want to do and what other people say only you can achieve what you want to achieve.

Keep yourself to yourself. Dont tell people your plans, people can steal your ideas and people will try to do the same thing as you, just keep things to yourself until your where you want to be at. Because people will try and bring you down no matter what you do or who you are.

You can’t do everything by yourself. You need people around you who are positive and help you get to where you want to be and the person you want to be.

Just so you know everyone gets to the finish line at different times. Enjoy your journey and your life and don’t let things or people define you.

Be who you needed when you was younger.

I hope this post helped you. I write notes before i do each post and i feel like i have just wrote down everything, hopefully it makes sense.

Hope you’re doing well wherever you are in life and know tomorrow is a new day.

Dakota X



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